What Makes People Sexy?

I have a friend who is going through a divorce.  As someone who went through the same thing about three years ago, I get it. It's tough and harder than anyone knows.  I think the only way to truly understand divorce is if you've been there.

What is the one thing you would tell people to remember when they start to date again?

I think that confidence is sexy and probably the sexiest thing you can find in a mate. The older you get the less tolerant I think we become of people who aren't confident. Yeah, you can try dating someone younger to boost your ego.  Or even date out of your league.

Come on, in the end we know it's not going to play out well.  My best advise for her is find someone who is confident but not cocky.  What would you tell her?